We Moved! Find us at www.myadhdbrain.com
I started this blog for one reason: I needed a spot to post a response to the parent of a newly diagnosed ADHD child. I’d batted around the idea of an ADHD blog but I had a million other things to do, and never got past the first ten.
That was less than a month ago.
What happened next astounded even me. I didn’t try to advertise or push the site to anyone except a few friends. A couple of days later, I left a response on Additude Magazine and didn’t think much of it, until I checked the stats.
In the first week and a half (what was left of January) I had received over 300 individual and distinct users to the site.
Okay, maybe It was a fluke.
This Month: 750 individual and distinct users. Again, with no real push because I’ve been playing with what I want this thing to do, and become.
Obviously, I’ve struck a chord, and wasn’t even trying. Personally, I believe it’s a testimony to my thinking: That people – as a whole – are frightened by different. And if there is anything in this world that is different, it’s an ADHD-er that’s full of purpose and unafraid of running face first into a wall. The problem is, most ADHD-ers flounder around, feel beat down and if they do get to that place of purpose, it’s because of their own grit and determination.
But, I believe there’s an army of innovators, of job creators, of new creatives that if they didn’t have to get there alone, could set their homes, their families, their work, this country, and the world on fire.
Will you help me release them?
I’m in the process of moving this blog to My ADHD Brain
All new posts will happen there. The Facebook page will remain the same.
Will you share your thoughts?
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Posted: February 10, 2012 in ADHD at Work, Adult ADHD, Building Up The ADHD Child, Celebrity and Famous ADHD, For Teachers: Empowering the ADHD Student, Issues and Problems
Tags: ADHD Failure, ADHD Success, Forbes.com
What Does it Feel Like To Have ADHD? This was my answer:
“Are You Paying Attention to What I’m Saying?”
No. I’m paying attention to everything everyone in this restaurant is saying. The five tables around ours? Following their conversations. The person sitting alone? I’ve summed up why. I hear every clink of plates, process why they clinked, tell the mood of the waitress by how it clinked. I’m empathetic to the young couple and their misbehaving child. Aware of the angry looking couple that just got seated, all while thinking about the nagging fourteen issues I have at work while I process the words coming from your mouth.
“Why Can’t You Act Like Everyone Else?”
Why would I want to?
“You Gotta do it the Right Way, And by Right Way I Mean the Socially Accepted Way.”
I’d rather be dead. I’m no pencil pusher. Im not satisfied reading about Lewis and Clarks exploits in the newspaper. I gotta be in that canoe. See what no one else has seen. Go where no one else has gone. Your safe little frontier town, your little colony, they make me itchy.
I Resent being told to squeeze into your itty bitty box. I try not to, but it’s in my blood. Maybe you’re comfortable in the Known. I consider shackles, bondage.
“Why do You Always Gotta do Things the Hard Way?”
Why do you always gotta do Things the Boring Way? Is it fear? Is it socially acceptable to walk around dead except for the breathing part?
For whatever reason I’ve got a legacy to create, a story to tell. That desires shoves itself up from the depths of my soul. A place even I can’t control. So quit making me feel stupid cause you’re “satisfied.”
You telling me to jump off a tall bridge?
“Why Can’t You Act ‘Normal?'”
Look, I can either spend the next thirty years beating myself up cause I’m different and see the world differently, I can destroy myself better than you could ever hope to by listening to my own self talk, or I can own the fact I was created this way for a purpose, refuse to let you and others like you limit my contribution to society, to my colleagues, to my family, wife and children, or you can get out of the way while I set the world on fire.
But really… You don’t get a say. This big bad world’s my playground and my ability makes me King of That Particular Hill. You’ll get your turn to pretend… after I’m done discovering.
Posted: February 8, 2012 in ADHD at Work, Adult ADHD, Buck Normal, Building Up The ADHD Child, Discipline, Disorganization, Perfectionist, Relationship Help, Self Esteem, Talking About ADHD
Tags: Can't You Be Normal, Life With ADHD, The ADHD Myth, The Normal Way, What is Wrong With You
Do You Use Fish Oil For ADHD Management and Support?
I know many of you take or give Fish Oil to help support and manage your ADHD. I don’t, but not because I am against it, but because I am a wuss when it comes to vitamins and supplements. The after taste (shock) kicks my rear. I am the reason the created Gummy Bear Sour Patch Kid Sour Skittle Vitamins.
However, as I was reading Consumer Reports this morning I came across a review from Consumer Reports regarding common brands available at your local pharmacy stop, and felt compelled — complete with goofy 60’s “B” movie whirlpool eyes and laser noises — to share. Don’t Forget To Take Our Highly, Over-the-Top, Secret, Tell All Poll Somewhere Down Below!
Fish Oil Pills Vs. Claims
Consumer Reports, January 2012
Americans are buying more fish oil supplements than ever, but in our lab tests of 15 top selling brands, six fell a bit short, says Consumer Reports.
We tested three lots of each brand, bought in New York stores. All had their labeled amount of EPA and DHA, Omega-3 Fatty acids that can reduce the risk of heart attacks and strokes. And none exceeded limits for lead, mercury, dioxins or polyclorinated biphenyls (PCBs) set by the US Pharmacopeia (USP), a non-governmental standard setting group, or by the European Union.
Speaking of ADHD: Mine’s kicking in and the great idea to type up this article is already sounding like no fun. Thinking of skipping the Jabberwocky and skipping straight to the test results.
Anyway, they found PCB’s (lead, mercury, junk you don’t wanna ingest) at higher levels than claimed. You can find the full article at Consumer Reports web site, here. Hey! I just realized that what I figured would prove a subscriber only article is actually available for view by everyone. Meaning I can also copy and paste… with full credit to ConsumerReports.org, of course.
But the test results revealed total PCBs in amounts that could require warning labels under California’s Proposition 65, a consumer right-to-know law, in one sample of the CVS, GNC, and Sundown products, and in two samples of Nature’s Bounty.
Most tested pills are claimed to be “purified” or “free” of PCBs, mercury, or other contaminants, claims that have no specific regulatory definition, the Food and Drug Administration says. The agency has taken no enforcement action against any omega-3 maker over PCBs or other contaminants, an FDA spokeswoman said, because it has seen no public-health risk.
And two samples of Kirkland Signature failed the USP’s disintegration test for pills with enteric coatings (designed to prevent fishy aftertaste): Their coating could break up in the stomach, not in the small intestine as intended. Oddly, that was one of few tested products labeled “USP Verified,” which indicates that the USP has tested and verified the claimed ingredients, potency, and manufacturing process.
Bottom line. Most people can get enough omega-3s by eating fatty fish—such as salmon and sardines, which are also low in mercury—at least twice a week. But people who have coronary heart disease require about a gram a day of those fatty acids, an amount that often requires taking a supplement. Check with a doctor before taking omega-3 pills because they can interact with some medications. Choose one listed under “met quality standards.” Those cost anywhere from 17 to 64 cents a day for 1 gram of EPA and DHA combined, the amount the American Heart Association recommends for people with coronary heart disease.
Super Cool, Super Secret and Classified, Eyes Only Tell All Poll!
Correction (From Consumer Reports Print Edition): The version of this story that appears in the January 2012 issue of Consumer Reports magazine reported that our tests found “elevated levels of compounds that indicate spoilage” in samples of Nordic Naturals Ultimate Omega 1000mg (180 count). Just as digital versions of the story were being readied for publication, however, the company challenged our conclusion based on the fact that its product includes natural lemon oil as a flavoring. Upon further review, we have found that the industry-standard spoilage test we used cannot reliably detect spoilage in products with lemon oil, and we could not identify any current well-established methodology for doing so. (Nordic Naturals was the only lemon-flavored product in our study.) Because the spoilage test cannot be applied, we couldn’t keep Nordic Naturals Ultimate Omega in a report that required all products to undergo all tests. Nordic Naturals did meet every other quality measure in our study. The pills, which cost about 67 cents per day, or $243 per year, contained their labeled amount of omega-3 fatty acids and met other U.S. Pharmacopeia (USP) and European Union standards, including those for contaminants such as lead, mercury and dioxins. They also met the stricter California Proposition 65 standard for total polychlorinated biphenyls (PCBs). A correction will appear in the February 2012 issue ofConsumer Reports magazine.
Posted: February 7, 2012 in ADHD: Au Natural, Adult ADHD, Diagnosing ADHD, Fish Oil, Health and Diet, Your Child's Health
Tags: Fish Oil, fish oil supplements, Holistic ADD, Medications for ADHD, Natural ADHD Help, omega 3 fatty acids, sour patch kid, us pharmacopeia, vitamins and supplements, warning labels
You or Your Child Diagnosed With ADHD? Feel Alone? Well You Are Not!
It’s important to understand our roots, not just focus on the day to day trials and tribulations. It’s tough, knowing you or your child will wake up each day and view the world so differently.
The sooner you embrace the crazy, beautiful, wacky fun side of who you or your child is, instead of buying the lie that “I gotta be like the normal people” the sooner you’ll begin to understand who you are and your place in your world.
That’s why it’s important to quit staring at our own feet and look up, absorbing the bigger picture. To do that, I think it’s important to look at others diagnosed with ADHD to help you understand: you aren’t alone.
Olympic athlete Bruce Jenner said on CHADD’s (Children and Adults with ADHD) leadership blog that he struggled in grade school with attention issues, until he won a race in fifth grade. Being the fastest kid in the class gave him his “little arena” to focus on — and eventually, the tools to succeed in the big arena, when he took the gold medal in the decathlon at the 1976 Summer Olympics.
David Neeleman reported in an interview with ADDitude magazine his ADHD prevents him from being detail-oriented and completing doing day-to-day tasks, saying, “I have an easier time planning a 20-aircraft fleet than I do paying the light bill.”
But Neeleman credits his success, and creation of JetBlue, with his ADHD — saying that, with the disorder comes creativity and the ability to think outside the box.
Posted: February 6, 2012 in Adult ADHD, Buck Normal, Building Up The ADHD Child, Celebrity and Famous ADHD, For Teachers: Empowering the ADHD Student
Tags: Adult ADHD, Celebrity ADHD, Empowerment, Encouragement, Famous People Diagnosed With ADHD, Famous People With ADHD, You Are Not Alone
Yesterday, I read a post that prompted me to look closer at the word Dither. Loved it, because it prompted a couple of my own thoughts regarding Dithering. (Not that I ever dither, but I know people that do, like my friend and colleague Marti… Talk about a’dithering! And don’t even get me started on Joe… But, I digress.)
This is the second part, a follow-up to a post that started yesterday. You can find the first part here:
I’ll never ever forget something that happened to me a few years ago:
I was out at completed job sites with our photographer. I had a list of 20 sites we needed photography for, and we got to project number eight, an office building.
We found the location but the address didn’t jibe with the company name. The name on the sign differed from my records and we needed to make sure we photographed the correct spot.
I called the office: all at lunch. Called cell phones: no answer. I grew frustrated. I left message after message, drove around the building, grew more anxious, which turned into anger.
30 minutes passed. Still no answer.
Then my photographer, Craig Davis, from Studio 563 in Houston looked at me and said “why don’t we just go to another job site and when we talk to someone and get the correct info we’ll come back?”
Why Didnt I Think of That?
I’d spent nearly an hour dithering, becoming so laser focused on a single problem, that I couldn’t break away, refocus on the larger picture. It never dawned on me to GO ON TO SOMETHING ELSE. it never even entered my mind.
What’s the Takeaway?
Sometimes, we should let go and go do something else. (Yes, it really is that simple.)
Posted: February 3, 2012 in Adult ADHD, Buck Normal, Building Up The ADHD Child, Indecisive, Issues and Problems, Perfectionist
Tags: Adult ADHD Issues, Can't Get Started, Fear, Freedom, Inability To Make a Choice, Indecisive, Perfectionism, Self Help for ADD, Unsure